So You’re Leaving the Convent - 4 Ways to Prepare
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So You’re Leaving the Convent - 4 Ways to Prepare

Recently, a woman still inside the convent (stilla nun) reached out to say she knew she would one day leave—but wasn’t there yet. It made me realize how much content I’ve made for women after they’ve left the convent, but not nearly enough for those standing in that in-between moment: still inside, but knowing you’re out the door sometime soon.

This post is for that exact moment.
That holy, hard season of quiet resolve before the leap.

If you’ve made the decision to leave, but haven’t yet told anyone—this is for you.

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How I Lost 10lbs. in 4 Months in an Easeful, Sustainable Way
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How I Lost 10lbs. in 4 Months in an Easeful, Sustainable Way

On February 2nd of this year, I had a rude awakening while trying on outfits for our 2nd Anniversary dinner. One skirt after another—skirts I’d worn dozens of times—suddenly felt PRET-ty snug. And shorter?!

My first reaction was: Oh no, did I shrink this?

I had not, in fact, shrunk all my skirts. I had gained about 10lbs. Between being in a relationship and adding meat back into my diet, I had gradually gained about 10 pounds over the past year. Nothing drastic, but just enough to not feel myself and not fit into my favorite clothes.

Instead of self-loathing or freaking out, I approached this with curiosity and science. I knew there were reasons and I knew there was a solution. Our bodies are basically science and math, with a little intuition.

So over the next 4 months, I lost those 10 pounds in an easeful, sustainable way - because that’s really the only pace I go at these days.

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Navigating Life as a Highly Sensitive Person: From Burnout to Low-Stim Life
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Navigating Life as a Highly Sensitive Person: From Burnout to Low-Stim Life

Ever felt like the world is just too much — too loud, too fast, too people-y? Same.

I didn’t have the words for it until I stumbled on the term HSP (Highly Sensitive Person) in my 30s, shortly after returning home utterly burnt out from 8 years of convent life.

Turns out, what I thought was just me being weird was actually a real thing — and understanding it changed everything. This post is a peek behind the curtain of what that journey’s looked like for me and what my low-stim life looks like today.

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Finding Your Pets a Home After You Die
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Finding Your Pets a Home After You Die

There is something I see all the time on Facebook and it makes me so sad and angry at the same time - friends or acquaintances of someone who has passed are seeking a forever home for the pets left behind because the owner did not plan for this.
Many of these pets as a result end up in a shelter or rescue, in a cage for an unknown amount of time because there was no plan for them and folks are just posting photos hoping to find a miracle.

It makes me so sad because it just takes a little planning to create a totally different trajectory for your pets after you die…

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Don’t Jump to Hormone Testing—Start With These 5 Healthy Habits Instead
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Don’t Jump to Hormone Testing—Start With These 5 Healthy Habits Instead

We’ve over-complicated how to get foundationally healthy.
Most people are simply not doing the BASICS because they aren’t willing to put in the discipline it takes, and quite frankly, because it’s not sexy, it’s not a dopamine hit. In reality - you can improve your health SIGNIFICANTLY FOR FREE (or very low cost) by integrating these 5 unsexy basics into your lifestyle.

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Going From Free to Paid House Sitting
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Going From Free to Paid House Sitting

Ok, so you’re a semi-experienced house sitter. Along the way, you’ve realized that house/pet sitting actually takes a decent amount of work and time, and that there are pet owners who likely would pay good money to secure a reliable, consistent one vs. having to find a new one every time on the free platforms.

Well, my friend you are correct!

I am here to tell you how to leverage all your awesome experience as a free sitter into paid opportunities.

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